Men and Women

This week's homework is to read an article from the Japan Times and give your opinion. http://search.japantimes.co.jp/member/member.html?ek20060110ks.htm
Do you agree or disagree with the author (who is Japanese). Please explain why in your blog.

Here is my opinion, but I am not sure that I could understand exactly the article…

I have no idea about that. I would like to say I do not agree with the author, but I know what the author means. But, I just cannot understand why there are such guys or men who are like in the article. And I hope I will never meet like that kind of person as my boyfriend, husband or anybody. It is just because it sounds “not nice” to me if there are such kind of guys or men. That is horrible to me!! To me, if people couldn’t “fall in love” with someone from the bottom of their hearts, then they do not have to make any “girlfriends”, do not have to go out of their way to make girlfriends. Why they have girlfriends? Just they should do whatever they want, like work or make money without worry about you do not have any partners right now! In my opinion, guys in the article are just selfish or they have too many things they want. It’s because it seems like the guys want partners, but they do not want to do something like “troublesome”. If they did not want to “waste” their money for girls, then just do not hang out with girls. I guess they are just lonely? They just want to someone “around them”? I think if people love somebody from the bottom of their hearts people will do anything for lovers without any worry, or people feel want to do anything for lovers.